Sex Toys from A-Z Explained

Sex Toys from A-Z Explained -

Sex toys can at times be very confusing, especially when you're new and keen to explore what it has to offer. Well, we can certainly help by educating you on some of SA's most loved sex toys. Have a look at our "From A-Z Explained Guide" below for answers to the questions you're to shy to ask about.

Anal Beads


Anal beads are a set of balls, joined together securely, that are inserted into the anus. Often they start small and go larger along the length of the string, making them easier to introduce to the body. A great first anal sex toy, the widening balls feel incredible for both men and women during sex or masturbation. A popular technique is pulling the anal beads out at the point of climax.




Anal Dildo


Anal dildos are designed to stimulate the anus and is different from a normal vaginal dildo we all know. They often have beads and slender bodies for better insertion. These dildos are often perfect for reaching the prostate in men and are known to give explosive orgasms that most never experience in their life.



Anal Douche


It is perfect for individuals seeking to explore pleasant anal sex. In most cases, it has a bulb (from which one can usually squirt water) and a nozzle that allows for easy insert. The douche is then inserted into the anus and used for cleansing.



Anal Relaxer

Anal sex can be amazing and also healthy for your prostate. However, there is one caveat when it comes to anal sex and that is the pain inflicted due to tight muscles. EasyANAL spray is the perfect choice for anal relaxing and having all the sexual pleasure without inflicting pain. It is designed for optimal pleasure and smoother anal sex. 


Anal Vibrator


Anal vibrators are extremely popular in South Africa for both men and women. Anal vibrators usually send strong vibrations to the prostate for explosive orgasms and are one of My Sex Shop's best selling vibrators. As with all anal sex toys, anal vibrators are designed for easy insertion and maximum pleasure.





Auto Blow


Try the Autoblow masturbators collection for an oral sex experience that is out of this world. The sex toy that South Africa men have been waiting for is finally available.

There is no greater feeling than a mouthwatering blowjob for most men. Autoblow knows this and has spent hours creating a perfect, automated, hands-free blowjob sex toy for men! A masturbator that feels so real, you’d almost think its the real deal.


Arab Strap


Bondage cock rings usually have a dual purpose, it comes with a strap and can be used as a leash in most cases. As with all BDSM sex toys, it is designed to instil a sense of control. We recommend only using BDSM sex toys if your partner is comfortable with the idea.

Bathmate Water Pump

If you’re looking for a high-quality penis pump that delivers real results, trust Bathmate Hydromax. While most penis pumps rely on air, with Bathmate Pumps, however, it’s water which works best for your erection and growth.


Bachelorette Parties

Include these fun products for a sexy party! These range from dick straws to party sashes! Have one last crazy event before your wedding night excitement!


Ball Gag

Ball gags always come with a strap that is connected to the ball and is always inserted and mounted onto the mouth and neck. For safe sex reasons, a ball gag should always have breathable holes so your partner is always able to breathe.



Bed Sheets

Protect your bedding during your wildest adventures with these bed sheets! Put the sheet over your bed or on another surface and you can go ahead with massage oil, lubricant, body powder etc. Let your imagination run free! The sheet is made of sturdy material and is of course completely waterproof. Clean the vinyl sheet with a toy cleaner after use and pat dry with a lint-free cloth before storing it.




A blindfold or mask is one of the first fetish role play ever created and often referred to as the most enticing way to get your partner in the mood. The excitement of not knowing or seeing anything is enough of a thought to get most women aroused (as long as you keep it sexy)!

Bondage Candles & Oils 

When exploring the world of BDSM wax play is a favorite among st kinksters when you're looking for a kinky experience. The feeling of exploring with wax can appeal to most men and women. Worried about burning? Fear not, as these candles are made to melt at a lower temperature so you can enjoy endless pleasure.


Bondage For Couples 


When exploring new and fun ways to experience BDSM, this is a popular favourite! The feeling of exploring with bondages and handcuffs can appeal to most men and women. Enjoy keeping things sexy and interesting! 


Bullet Vibrator

They are smaller than most vibes, but, they still pack a mean punch. Bullet vibes are often used for clit stimulation because of it's a smaller size. These vibrators have 3 main uses, they are discreet, great for teasing women, and can also assist in explosive orgasms.

For example, a bullet vibe from the famous Come Closer brand is an excellent option with rechargeable function and an amazing design that fits right into your intimate organ. Enjoy superior vibrations and stimulations for orgasms. 


Butt Plugs


An anal plug (also called butt plugs, sometimes misspelled as butt plug) is a sex toy designed for anal stimulation and specifically designed for the purpose. Thus, a real anal plug is equipped with a special stopper that prevents it from disappearing into the anus during use.

Anal plugs are available in several different materials. Most commonly, the more soft rubber or phthalate-free plastic materials are most often coated with medical silicone for optimum comfort. But they are also available in glass, steel, and other materials.

In conjunction with the use of anal plugs, it is recommended that you use a special anal lubricant or anal creams and anal sprays available in versions that both have an anesthetic and relaxing effect on the anus muscles. Then, inserting the butt plug becomes easier and more comfortable.




Classic Vibrators

 Vibrators are the common sex toy we're all familiar with, they're shaped quite similarly to one another and was the first of it's kind. For most, it is the first form of pleasure our mind refers to if one speaks of a vibrator. Their main purpose is for either clit stimulation or vagina penetration, and cannot typically be used simultaneously for both.


Clitoral Vibrator


They are quite handy when it comes to being discreet. However, if you are a couple looking to use both anal and vaginal pleasures, the couple’s choice vibrator is the best option. It comes with one stiff end and another flexible one which enables you to have both the pleasure of anal and vaginal sex together.  



Climax Delay For Men



The first spray with Vitamin E to nourish and activate the cells containing natural Vitamin E which is easily absorbed through a local application. Specially formulated to reduce over-sensitivity and pro-long sexual pleasure. The delay sprays will exert a calming effect to aid sexual confidence. Include these in the bedroom for maximum fun!  



Clone Kits

Now you have the chance to immortalize yourself and create a fully functioning vibrator based on you – You star!!! This kit contains nearly everything you need, including molding powder, thermometer, and a mini vibrator.

Cock Rings


The purpose is to stop the blood from flowing back down the penis. This can help men to have better sex, longer erections and explosive orgasms. For the more advanced, men can choose rigged or metal rings. Cock rings also offer women pleasure when opting for a clitoral stimulator which in most cases are attached to the ring.



Dildos are amazing as sex toys as they help you replicate the same sexual pleasure that your partner may offer. However, if you are looking for one of the most exciting sexual experiences then choosing King Cock’s Triple Density Swinging Balls can be beneficial. What makes it a more attractive product is the swinging balls which offer a realistic feel of having sex with your partner. 


Strap-on Dildo


Those comes in handy for it's most common purpose, allowing women or men to penetrate using a dildo.


Double Dildos


Double dildos commonly have two penis forms on either end of the dildo. It allows you to experience double penetration without the use of two men. It can also be referred to as a double dong or dual dildo.


Electro Sex Toys


This are toys that send mild electrical current to your body via the toy used. These toys are safe to use and the current, in most cases can be changed to choose a setting you're comfortable with. The feeling of mild shock and pleasurable vibrations can be a recipe for powerful orgasm like you've never experienced before.






Slip this onto yourself for the illusion of a bigger penis! This is a fun way to experience a different type of pleasure as well as satisfying your partner! This may be an exciting product to include in the bedroom!


Oral and Finger Vibrators

Slip these petite little dynamites of joy on your hand or mouth and let the vibrations whisk you away. Finger vibes are mostly used for clitoral or body stimulation.



 Those toys are  specifically designed for male pleasure. They usually take the form of a torch or flashlight. Fleshlight's now also come in variants such as mouth, ass and vagina. Fleshlight brands have gone on to also name their fleshlights after famous porn stars.


G-Spot Vibrator


G-spot vibrators are usually curved at the tip to firmly target the g-spot and send powerful vibrations, which is believed to be at the vaginal wall inside the vagina. There are quite a few questionable factors when it comes to g-spot stimulation, like, female ejaculation and even g-spot orgasms itself. Once achieved, you'll surely discover a new world of orgasms.




Handcuffs serve as a method of BDSM sex. It provides a measure of control to the individual having dominance!


Kegel Balls


Kegel balls should be a woman's best friend. In women, it is believed to strengthen the vaginal wall and pelvic floor muscles. Beyond the sexual benefits, these balls offer multiple health benefits. Many women find themselves not wanting to naturally perform kegel exercise and resort to kegel balls instead.




Incorporate these sexy pieces of lingerie for an even sexier bedroom experience! We have ranges of different products from crotchless panties to tights and robes! 


Luxury Vibrators

Those are in most cases, vibrators that are more expensive and durable than most commonly shaped and functional vibes.





Use our lubricants for extra pleasure and safety! Add some spice with a flavoured lubricant for a delicious time!



Libido For Her


Libido supplement tablets for women are created especially for her, and are designed to give her sex drive a boost when she needs it most!  Incorporate these into the bedroom for double the fun!

Male Masturbators


Sometimes referred to as fleshlights, pocket pussies and stroker which are all accurate. This selection of sex toys is specifically designed to imitate a vagina, anus or mouth.


Masks can be not only be playful for your sexual moments to get all kinky but also amazing to add some spice in intimacy. For example, you can go all fifty shades of grey with an embroidered mask and keep your partner guessing on whats coming next!


Mini Vibrator


Mini vibrators are the masters of disguise and discretion. These small jewels pack a mean punch and are perfect for travel. You'll never have to worry about your device being exposed as most of them do not take the form of a vibrator.


Nipple Clamp


A nipple clamp is often used with electric stimulation. It has two ends that are meant to squeeze the nipple. By adding mild electric currents, it increases the sensation.






These are the ultimate toys for men who want a more impressive looking package. They features nodules on the underside that stimulate, keeping him harder for longer and we love the stretchy design for maximum comfort. Include these in the bedroom for more pleasure!



Penis Pump


Penis pumps are designed to slightly increase the girth of the penis, add a better sensation during intercourse, and longer-lasting erections. Take an example of the Renegade Powerhouse Pump which delivers excellent suction force for powerful erections. Made from high-grade acrylic and TPE this is one penis pump you should add to your collection.


Rabbit Vibrators


A pretty, ultra pleasurable vibe that’s absolutely perfect for first timers, this is simple and user friendly, delivering precise power and pleasure without tons of intimidating functions or an overwhelming design.


Realistic Dildo


Those are exactly what it says in the name, "Realistic". These dildos add a sense of realism to your entire experience. They come with veins and are always available in different colors and shapes. This helps when you're looking for a specific dildo that appeals to you.




Role Play


Add these sexy pieces to spice things up! Role play is a great way to have a fun and have a different sexual experience! Be a sexy nurse or cop for an evening! These are also great for dress up parties!

Sex Dolls



Those Dolls have revolutionized the way we think of a sex toy. They are also known as love dolls or blow up dolls. In modern days, sex dolls can be customized to your liking. They even take the form and shape of your most desired porn star or celebrity. Sex dolls are available for both men and women.


Sex Machine


This are the new sex toys. Imagine sitting back and relaxing while a device does all the hard work for you. It eliminates the old-fashioned manual work and will continue to provide pleasure non-stop.



Sex Swings

Include these fun swings for different positions and penetrance! Couples love to experiment with these fun products for a new and exciting experience!



Thrusting Dildo


Try these super fun thrusting vibrators and dildos! Delight in the different thrusting modes ranging from a constant gentle pulse to wild rhythmic thrusts. More fun for the bedroom!


Vibrating Panties


Can you keep a secret? These underwear are a super fun way to have fun outside the bedroom, completely secretly! Choose a vibrating setting and have fun!

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