How to choose the right sized dildo.
When you choose between a vibrating and non-vibrating dildo, choosing the right size for you and/or your lover will determine how pleasurable the experience will be. Below you will find information & insights to help you making the best choice.
Testing for size & comfort.
A simple finger test will determine what is comfortable, measure the diameter and/or circumference for the comfort level of stretching. To measure the size of fingers you desire, place a tape measure around them to determine circumference or use a ruler to determine diameter, we will remind you that both the G-spot in a woman and prostate in a man are located only 2.5 - 3 inches inside.
Diameter Vs. Circumference
Remember the difference between circumference and diameter when assessing how large your sex toy is going to be. Often these two measurements are confused, so being clear as to how wide versus how far around a product is can make a huge difference.
Bigger is not always better
One of the most common mistakes is assuming that bigger is always better. If the dildo is too long it can hit the cervix of your female lover and cause pain and if it is too wide it can cause uncomfortable vaginal or anal stretching. On the other hand if it is too small it can not be as satisfying or provide enough stimulation. That is why it is always a good idea to have a sense of what is comfortable for you and/or your lover rather than assuming that any size will be fine. If you are unsure, keep in mind that it is always possible to make a dildo feel bigger by adding a penis sleeve to it, however, a larger dildo cannot be made to feel smaller.
How to use a larger dildo
To use a larger dildo make sure to use a lot of lubricant, go slowly and to listen to what your body is telling you. If you begin to feel discomfort you should stop, re-apply more lubricant and be more gentle. If it is still uncomfortable, you should try starting with a smaller dildo and work your way up to your desired goal size.
Flared/suction cub base & testicles
If you desire a dildo that has testicles or a flared/suction cub base, remember to notice what the insertable length of the dildo is rather than the overall length. Below you will see examples of what this means as you can only insert part of the dildo rather than the entire length of it. Please use the chat window or call Mysexshop for any assistance, We provide information on all our products for both overall length and the insertable length.
|
|
 |
 |
How to change the size & functions of your dildo
-
If you have a dildo that it too small for you in width an easy way to make it wider is to add a penis sleeve to it.
-
If the length of a dildo is too long, you do not have to insert the dildo the entire length and can even use cockrings to shorten their insertable length.
The Flexibility factor
How flexible and firm a dildo will also greatly impact the feel and performance of it. For example, some materials are extremely rigid and have little to no flexibility to them which often means that that are going to feel slightly bigger as there is no 'give' to them. Our dual-density silicone core ensures maximum pleasure and are 100% body safe with no harmful materials.
 |
|
Determining your options
There are many sexual scenarios in which dildos are used such as: solo vs. with a partner, if you are wanting a dildo for a harness choose a dildo with a flared/suction base, feel free to contact us.
