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Best Prostate Massagers: How to Choose and Use One

by mads Finn viuff on Sep 16, 2024
Best Prostate massagers

Have you ever wondered what prostate stimulation might feel like? A purpose-designed massager can open the door to deeper pressure, intense new sensations and a very different kind of orgasm.

What makes a prostate massager different?

A prostate massager usually has a curved insertable section designed to press toward the prostate and a wide base that keeps the toy safely outside the body.

Choose a beginner-friendly size

If you are new to internal anal play, start slim with a tapered tip. A smaller toy makes it easier to relax, learn the angle and decide whether you enjoy the sensation before moving up.

Decide whether you want vibration

Non-vibrating toys let you explore pressure and movement manually. Vibrating models add anything from a gentle pulse to powerful intensity. Multiple settings make it easier to begin softly.

Look for easy controls

Buttons should be simple to reach while the toy is in place. Remote-controlled options allow a partner to take over and can make the anticipation especially exciting.

Use plenty of anal lubricant

Apply generous anal lubricant to the opening and the toy. Reapply when needed, move slowly and never force insertion.

Find the angle

The prostate is reached through the rectal wall in the direction of the front of the body. Begin with shallow insertion, relax your pelvic floor and experiment with gentle rocking rather than aggressive thrusting.

Combine sensations

Stroke the penis, add a cock ring or invite a partner to control the toy. Prostate play does not have to produce orgasm to feel deeply pleasurable.

Keep pleasure separate from treatment

Prostate massagers are pleasure products, not treatments for cancer, prostatitis, erectile dysfunction or urinary symptoms. Avoid use and seek medical advice if you have fever, severe pelvic pain, bleeding or suspected infection.

Start small, use more lube than you think and let curiosity—not pressure—guide the experience.

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