Have you ever held a dildo and wondered where to begin? The answer is slowly, playfully and with plenty of lubricant. A dildo can add fullness, pressure and complete control over depth and rhythm.
Choose a comfortable first size
Beginners usually find a slim, smooth toy easier to explore. Check insertable length and girth rather than judging only by appearance. Browse dildos and choose the size that feels exciting without feeling intimidating.
Wash the toy first
Clean it according to the material instructions before and after every use. Allow it to dry completely before storage.
Warm up your body
Begin with kissing, fantasy, clitoral touch or a smaller toy. Penetration is more comfortable when you are aroused and relaxed.
Use plenty of lubricant
Apply compatible lubricant to the toy and body. Reapply whenever needed and stop if friction becomes uncomfortable.
Begin shallowly
Guide the tapered tip in slowly, pause and let your body adjust. Experiment with gentle rocking, small strokes and different angles before increasing depth or speed.
Add clitoral stimulation
Use your fingers or a small clitoral vibrator while moving the dildo. Combining internal fullness with external vibration can create intense blended pleasure.
Invite a partner
Tell your partner the depth and rhythm you enjoy, and keep one hand on the base if you want extra control. A suction-cup model can also be mounted on a smooth, stable surface for hands-free play.
Use only anal-safe designs for anal play
A toy used anally must have a wide flared base. An ordinary dildo without a secure base can slip fully inside and should not be used in the anus.
Keep it playful
You do not need to use the full length or reach orgasm. Explore what feels good, change angles and let your body decide the pace.
