The Beginners Guide to Sex Toys

The Beginners Guide to Sex Toys -

Whether you're buying a gift for someone special or treating yourself, it can often be difficult to know where to even begin. This guide will give you a bit of insight to the sex toys section on so you know where and what to look for.

If you're looking for your first ever sex toy, you may find our guide on picking the toy that's right for you helpful.

If you're curious about what exactly something is used for, check out tour A- Z of Sex Toys guide that explains all the sex toys on the market.


Most women find it easier to achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation - hence why the vibrator is one of the most popular sex toys. There are many different kinds of vibrator, such as bullet, G-spot, magic wand, remote control - but easily the most famous of the vibrators is the rabbit vibrator.

The rabbit vibrator is a toy that provides both internal and clitoral stimulation at the same time, making it unlike anything else. The Rabbit vibes are the perfect first time vibrator because of its incredible ease of use, multispeed controls and waterproof cover - for fun in the bedroom and the bathroom.

However if all those functions scare you, start small with a Bullet Vibe. Most are Single-speed and discreet and these mini vibrators are unintimidating and intuitive.

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Dildo's are perfect for those who are looking for something a little more realistic in a sex toy. They are ideal if you need some sort of internal stimulation to orgasm and they can hit your G-spot perfectly when angled right.

The most popular kinds are the realistic and glass dildos. The double dongs and strap-on dildo's are perfect for those who are feeling a little more adventurous.

The Icicles Gold Collection of Glass dildo's are a great place to start but whichever dildo you go for, a little lube will help things go smoothly.


Cock Rings

Couples can enjoy cock rings together, but they're also great for single men. Wearing a cock ring on the base of your penis firms up your erection, making it last longer and adding new sensation to the mix.

Vibrating cock rings make have all the erection-enhancing qualities of regular cock rings, but with added pleasurable vibrations for you both too. The Macho Vibrating Cock Ring is a great one if you're thinking of introducing toys to your couples play.

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Male Sex Toys

There are entire ranges of sex toys available to men with such variety that you're bound to find something that tickles your fancy. There's everything from great value sleeves and strokers to realistic vaginas, and from love dolls to prostate toys.

An ideal starter would be the Pink Lady Fleshlight. This sensuously soft sleeve has the life-like look and feel of a real vagina. It's easy to handle, even easier to clean and designed for discreet storage too.

If you want something on the lower end of the price scale so you can experiment and see if male masturbators are right for you, check out the disposable COLT products. Pocket-friendly in both size and price, there are a multitude of different products in different shapes and textures for you to enjoy.

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Anal Sex Toys

Once you get over the initial fear of anal play and realise that the whole area is rich in nerve endings that just love to be teased and stimulated, you'll never look back.

Anal beads are probably the best introduction because of their ease of use, graduated sizing and un-intimidating appearance. Pick up a set of our beginner Anal Beads and you can start with the smallest bead then work your way up to taking them all.

Anal dildos provide greater sensations and are available in many different shapes and sizes, making them ideal for men, women and couples. Similarly, butt plugs give you that incredible feeling of fullness yet also give you the graduated shaping of anal beads too - the best of both worlds. Whichever anal toy you decide is best for you, use anal lube for easy insertion.



Whether you're just starting out or have already discovered the joys of bondage with your partner, at we have something for everyone when it comes to tie and tease or BDSM.

From gags & blindfolds to cuffs & restraints for those just starting out with tie and tease play. We also have other bondage gear like fetish sex toys, fetish wear and nipple clamps for the more advanced.

The Fetish Fantasy Series Lover's Fantasy Kit is a great set that contains everything you need to get started with bedroom bondage.

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