Feeling connected to another person through sex is one of the most fulfilling and satisfying feeling and experience. The key connecting factor between the couple is security, trust and openness. When both feel completely comfortable and are able to open to each other and can show them their private side that is usually hidden from the world, that increases the bond of trust from which intimacy grows.
There is a common saying among the men. They like and want the lady in the public but a freaking hot in the bed. Every man likes a sweet, adorable but a bit wild in the bedroom type of girl who enjoys every single part in the relationship. There is nothing more hot, sexy and that turns your man on more than knowing that his girl is a little mix of sweetness and wildness. Mentioned below are a few points to know how you can blow his mind and turn him on quickly.
1. Have 'May I' Sex
If you and your partner are comfortable and can get libidinous with each other, you do not need to ask or take permission of your partner before entering into any sexual relationship. But if your partner feels uncomfortable or does not feel it right to start something without asking, it is better to ask 'may I' to make him/her feel safe. Asking for their consent is considered to be naughty because it means that the sex is no longer a given. More often men feel shy in sharing what really turns them on and what they really like. It is quite comforting to ask where he likes to be touched and what makes him feel aroused. Be playful with penis, especially frenulum which is the most sensitive part of the penis. Lick and apply slight pressure to increase the blood circulation, in turn getting even harder erections.
5. Talk Dirty Into His Ear And Tease Him
Talking dirty to your man is such a powerful move when it comes to turning him on quickly. Plus, talking dirty to your man would help you communicate your desires and fantasies to your partner along with arousing him. A lot of men like and appreciate the girls talking dirty to them. Teasing him and nibbling, kissing, licking or touching his ears can also turn him on. The key to nibbling his ears is to slightly drag your tongue or teeth along his earlobe and make him feel aroused.
6. Try Something New
Trying something new while being in the same bedroom can turn arousal to a new level. It feels out of the world when you are trying to act your fantasy or doing an activity that increases the intensity of sex between the two. Trying something new always becomes hotter and more pleasurable when you both like it. Try not adding the responsibility entirely on a single person. Take turns and initiate adding new things to your sexual menu periodically. This prevents sex from becoming boring, stale and outdated especially when you are in a long distance relationship.
The points mentioned above will help you know the ways through which you can win your man easily. Trying out different types of touch and remaining more curious about how it feels to your partner is also a kind of experience everyone should have. Digging yourself into the sense of curiosity and experimentation and approaching your partner's body as something that can offer you new, sexy and exciting things and alleys of pleasure, you open up a sense of joint playfulness that is quite helpful in your relationship and can make you feel extremely transformative.