Choose Category

Fetish Sex Toys & Role Play

Your Guide to Fetish Roleplaying

One of the first things to realize about adding or incorporating role-play and your preferred fetish into your bedroom is that your partner already plays a role.

The concept of playing a role that is other than the one you prescribe to in your daily life is a difficult one to trace. One could argue that the concept of playing another role or acting can be traced back to the Ancient Greek plays by Sophocles and other great minds around 400 BC (Acting-classes-online-tips.com).

Given the personal nature of adding role-play to the bedroom or a play scene, it is difficult to determine when it entered the bedroom arena. To clarify for this article I am referring to the act of playing a specific role for the purpose of sexual excitement and/or fetish or kink activities. We’re not referring to playing such games as Dungeons and Dragons or Live Action Role Playing games. Though, as a role-player of those games, we’ll be discussing how those can very easily fit into your play scenes later.

For the purpose of this article, we are going to define “role-play” as two or more people choosing to take on a different role or identity to act out a sexual or fetish fantasy or engage in a sexualized activity.

Role Play Safety

This, along with any other fetish activity requires a quick debriefing regarding safety. If the particular fantasy you are acting out requires tools, toys or physically intensive acts remember to employ any of the safety tips we’ve suggested. If you’re going to be flogging someone know where to flog them, how hard and what are the warning signs of flogging incorrectly.

Another key thing to incorporate into your role-playing is a safe word. If you and your partner are choosing to act out a kidnap or rape fantasy it is very important to have a safe word that either of you can use at any time to break the scene. In these particular instances begging for your partner to stop may be a part of the scene so it is very important for it to be something neither of you would say.

Close Out Your Role Play Right

Role-playing is a great way to spice up your love life and a great way of incorporating multiple partners into your play. This key, as always, is safety. Safety can be achieved through trust and open communication. It’s very important to touch base with your partner after a role-play scene. It’s good to know what really got them going, what was pushing their boundaries, what they liked and did not enjoy but put up with. By doing this and keeping track of the two (or three or four) of you can explore and expand your boundaries safely. This is closer to what I had mentioned in the introduction.

This is for those who like to role-play and for those who like to role-play. If you and your partner have always dreamed about having your two Vampire characters go at then this group is perfect for you and me. Because I find that stuff unbelievably sexy. As always, remember that this fetish or kink can come in many forms so explore and have as much fun as possible!

Showing 1–16 of 138 results

  • Sale! Scandal Spreader BarScandal Spreader Bar

    Scandal Spreader Bar

    R1,399.00 R895.00
    Read more
  • Sale! Police Costume

    Police Costume

    R1,399.00 R889.00
    Select options
  • Sale! nipple and clit chain

    You2Toys Nipple and Clit Chain

    R499.00 R345.00
    Read more
  • Sale!

    Merry See, Untie Me – Hot Sexy Babe Lace

    R499.00 R299.00
    Add to basket
  • Sale! Entice Blackout EyemaskEntice Blackout Eyemask

    Entice Blackout Eyemask

    Rated 5.00 out of 5
    R399.00 R199.00
    Add to basket
  • Sale! Fetish Fantasy Series Alligator Nipple ClampsFetish Alligator Nipple Clamps

    Fetish Alligator Nipple Clamps

    Rated 5.00 out of 5
    R299.00 R189.00
    Read more
  • Sale! Completely His Restraints

    Fifty Shades of Grey Completely His Restraints

    R1,599.00 R1,090.00
    Add to basket
  • Sale!

    Scandal Bustier With Cuffs

    R1,799.00 R995.00
    Add to basket
  • Sale!

    Merry See Sexy Lollipop Briefs Set.

    R499.00 R299.00
    Add to basket
  • Sale! Scandal Universal CuffsScandal Universal Cuffs

    Scandal Universal Cuffs

    R449.00 R199.00
    Read more
  • Sale!

    Cottelli Collection Plus Crotchless Leggings

    R999.00 R595.00
    Select options
  • Sale! Scandal Collar Body RestraintScandal Collar Body Restraint

    Scandal Collar Body Restraint

    R899.00 R580.00
    Add to basket
  • Sale! Punker Garter Belt SetPunker garter belt 3 pcs set  S/M

    Punker Garter Belt Set

    R1,299.00 R789.00
    Select options
  • Sale! cockring and clamp

    Bad Kitty Cockring and Clamp

    R999.00 R635.00
    Add to basket
  • Sale!

    Merry See, Catsuit Opened Back Leather imitation, soft feel.

    R699.00 R379.00
    Add to basket
  • Sale! Fetish Fantasy Door SwingFetish Fantasy Series Fantasy Door Swing

    Fetish Fantasy Door Swing

    Rated 4.50 out of 5
    R1,290.00 R880.00
    Read more