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New on the scene are so-called “strapless strap-ons”. Strapless strap-ons typically offer a bulb for the wearer to grasp the dildo internally, rather than needing to secure it by straps. These are fantastic for a host of reasons including that the elimination of a harness makes sex all that much closer with your partner, and the double-headed nature of these toys mean that both parties receive stimulation with every thrust (some strapless strap-ons also have slots to insert a bullet vibrator).

The potential downside of such toys is that they can be weighty and therefore, a challenge for even the most practiced kegel black belt to hold in (particularly once motion and lube are in the mix, or during anal sex given that the sphincter muscles are much tighter than the vagina). This problem can be surmounted in several ways, however: first, certain positions are better suited to keeping the toy in (lazy doggy, cowgirl, spooning to name a few) or many actually opt to use these toys with a harness for additional support (while still enjoying the benefits of mutual stimulation).

The quick and dirty: To recap, compared with traditional strap-ons the strapless variety can offer more intimacy and better mutual stimulation, but with typically with less control.

Other Pro Tips:

  • Get to know your toy. The better acquainted you are with how it fits with your body alone, the more comfortable you will be using it with a partner.  Try wearing your toy solo, and learning how snug you need your harness to be, how much lube you need to be comfortable, etc
  • LUBE. Lots of it. Don’t skimp just to enhance control- you will regret it
  • Angles! Whether you’re trying to stimulate a g spot or a prostate, doggy style with the dil’ curving downward is the way to go
  • Be patient: Penetration always requires an extreme degree of trust. Go slow, listen to the cues of your body as well as the verbal and non-verbal cues of your partner. Strap-ons are also more elaborate than most toys, so be patient with yourself and your partner. The payoff is worth it.
Caring for & Cleaning your Sex Toys:
Use a good toy cleaner and a damp cloth to wipe the toy cleaner. For a deeper clean, soak in warm water for eight to 10 minutes. ONCE YOUR TOY IS SQUEAKY-CLEAN dry it off completely with a clean paper towel and store it in a case or silk bag to protect it from other bacteria-laden items.

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